I want to be ruled but also loved. This has helped me make a huge mental leap! It can take time. From a sociological point of view, Danielle Lindemann has stated the "embattled purity regime" in which many pro-dommes emphasise their specialist knowledge and professional skills, while distancing themselves from economic criteria for success, in a way which is comparable to avant-garde artists. She does whatever she wants, whenever she wants, with either or both, according to her pleasure—and her pleasure is also my pleasure. Stroker Ace by Lilah E.
Like the Jo-knot it meets its target quietly, but unlike the other it has integrity. I was never bruised, cut, or scratched. Research on proper care determined that popping them wasn't necessary phew! I frantically said "I was only scratching my balls, and I couldn't stop. She was probably used to it all, but when I got spanked, I sure didn't like that she was always around. After puberty, the embarrassment was worse the the discomfort. This picture was taken months ago and my palm has healed.
Re: Spanking on the genitals -- Corporal Punishment Support
Taking boys' pants down and spanking back and front was not uncommon. It's not that I would mind the damage to my hand, but it does take it out of commission during the healing process and I can't have that. The heavy, floppy knot draws unevenly upon the ropes in the handle rendering it misshapen as some tighten and others do not. It was a result of having used my hand throughout a thirty minute session.
Description: The fly swatter stung like the dickens and did little, if any, damage to the skin. When my sister discovered it was worse, she started using it even when I was flaccid. I don't think she should get praise. She tugged them right down. I am a senior adult now.